Whatever your motivations are for picking up women, you have to have some solid fundamentals down. There is so much noise out there trying to teach you some magic way to make women putty in your hands, but it’s really all about the fundamentals.

The fundamentals and basics work so well for you because most guys forget about them and never use them to when talking to women. Remember you have to go against what every other chump out there is doing if you want to know how to attract women.

The first major thing you have to get right is your confidence. Whatever you have to do to achieve that confidence level doesn’t matter much, but you have to have it. In you walk into a place or try to approach a women with a faulty or fake confidence, women can sense it before you get 20 feet away. I’m sure you’ve heard that almost 90% of all communication is through body language and that doesn’t lie which is exactly why you can’t fake killer confidence.

Second, it’s good to develop a quick wit. Don’t worry though because you can easily develop this wit by memorizing some basic lines and comebacks that are proven to work. The important thing is to practice them a lot so when you need them, you can use them at a moments notice and really come across genuine. The best time to use these lines in my experience is when you’re with a girl that is rude and you’re trying to make the escape or if you are talking to a very guarded girl.

Third, a huge fundamental is the clothes you’re wearing. You have to stop thinking about the older terms like peacocking which everybody and their Mom knows about by now. If you dress like an idiot and it stripes you of your confidence, you’ll get called out. If you want to get some good attention, dress clean and professional with some color too… most guys are terrified of dressing nice. That is how to get a girlfriend too because it demonstrates a value of worth.

Finally, you must have a goal for the woman you want and stick to it. I guess you can call this an exit strategy. If you don’t have an exit strategy then things can combust really quickly. So if you want to get a kiss then go for the playful kiss, but don’t try to do too much if you’re not sure the opportunity is really there. If you’re going for more then make the move when you see an opening.